. . . this is my third week of being a vegetarian, family is not really supporting my decision but still so far I'm still surviving. . .
Today 27.6.2012 after class at about 6pm I went to a nearby vegetarian shop to have my lunch + dinner. I had been going to this particular vegetarian shop for about 3 years, so the owner knows me quite well. Lately, me being a vegan - I'm now his regular customer. The food is served buffet style where one of the staff would assist you, typical "nasi ekonomi" style. I took my food, paid for it, chose the corner of the shop so that I could observe those who walk in and out of the shop.
Later came, a Chinese clean, decent oldman probably in his 60's. Looking at this old man the restaurant staff hesitated to serve him. Then came the restaurant's owner, he asked the old man if he has any money! (harsh tone in Hokkien) The old man replied that he would pay "later". By the way of their interaction and with my little Hokkien knowledge I concluded that this old man does some odd job and has no money with him due to the heavy rain today in Penang.
The old man added, its food -basic need and he'll pay later la, he has no money la, hungry la and stuff. While the taukeh kept shooing off saying; in this world everything needs money, he is not doing charity either. The other customers in the shop never showed any interest in the "drama".
Me, sitting there looking at this "drama" lost my appetite.
I felt guilty sitting there, I'm thought of paying but then my mind quicly browsed through all the "awkward" possibilities :
1. What if the old man rejects? He might have his own guts and me being a "kiddo" offering to pay might affect that.
2. What would the shop owner think of me? He might be thinking why is this guy trying to be a "hero". I don't know who the old man after all. He might also think I'm trying to act smart!
3. Why should I poke my nose in others biz?
4. The proverb “Give a man a fish; you have fed him for today. Teach a man to fish; and you have fed him for a lifetime" came into my mind
5. What if the old man takes food for, just say RM50. That is like a buta.com for me.
...but at the end I recalled an Indian proverb my father used to tell me, which literally means; If one man claims that he has no food no consume, shall I destroy the entire humankind.
( I know the proverb is a little far-fetched but then those are words to that effect) So I walked toward the old man gave him RM10 asked him to buy food and walked away from the shop.
p/s : yea, I just gave RM10 because I'm not Bill Gates son!
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Okey, so what is wrong with the society today? Have we lost our humanity going after all this material wealth? Has today's world people became so self centered and selfish?! The above is just one scenario. I bet there are many more similar or even sadder examples out there but then what has got into our souls and minds? The number of zero's in our bank balance? At the end on the day, money can only give you comfort but not happiness.
Yeah, the man was physically "perfect", good eye-sight, had both hands and legs but remember not all are as fortunate as others. We could easily spend RM10 on movies, hundreds on entertainment, clubbing, fancy food and clothing, spend so much on temple donations/religious matter but when it comes to giving to others we tend to think of bankruptcy! We tend to think who are they to us, not my relatives nor friends! We look for an added "material" value in everything and not human value!!
Funny but this is the sad TRUTH ! |
Take the shop owner for an instance, just assume that an average meal would cost RM5 and in day he has 150 customers. He makes a RM750 and assuming his cost is RM350, he still makes a solid RM400 per day! yet he could scold and shoo away a helpless hungry man.
He might have had his reasons but the core issue is humanity is dying ! We tend to give a million reason even to feed a hungry man.
~ Those who have, don't wish to give & those who wish to give, don't have.
~ Those who have, don't wish to give & those who wish to give, don't have.
# We live in a society where they would feed dogs but not a hungry stranger/beggar.
#We live in a society that would not feed/help the needy but instead tell their children that " if you don't study hard today, you'll end up being him"
Actually there is still lot more to write on the erosion of humanity among the society now but I'm not in the mood and I'm a little tired so I'd like to end this here. I have laid out an example, which I think is sufficient.
Good night. Take care.
" Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive. " - Dalai Lama
" Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive. " - Dalai Lama