A Big ' NO ' to Caste-ism !

Hindu's and caste are two inseparable things. They exist since time immemorial ! But now according to what I observe in Malaysia, caste system has became a trend. It is a show-off material of the difference that certain people make with the other's in a certain society.

I do have friends who had to leave their loved ones because their parents don't allow marriage between different caste. WTF man ! Its mankind no matter what food you eat, how rich you are; if I've to cut your hand, your blood would be red and you would definitely feel the same pain too !
Many people thinks that even being friendly with people with different caste lowers their dignity.
Think people think ! Now days nothing matters. Even people form the lowest caste can be a best doctor and to you "higher caste'" people ; if you're sick, won't you go to that best doctor who's from a lower caste?

People claim that they are, 'Thever' , ' Naidu' , 'Rao' and whatsoever but people, don't you forget that we are all Hindus. Child from the same God.
A best example to describe us is :

 Those caste fanatics are like people fighting for rooms (saying that their room is better and so on) but forgeting the fact that they all live in the same house ' HINDUISM'

 Practicing caste-ism among minority like Hindus in Malaysia only breaks our unity. Wake up people. Unity is very important for all. As an example, you can always break a stick very easily but try breaking 100 united stick together at the same time. I bet you can't !

Towards unity and for a better community.

I Miss You macha.

Friends come and go. And sometimes, even the best ones go, never to return again. In this heartfelt story about the bonds of friendship, recounts the moments surrounding the loss of someone dear in memory of a love that has remained long after the body has decayed.

The late Ramnath, a truly amazing friend l Photo by Sanjey Balaraman

Edna Buchanan once said:

Friends are the family we choose for ourselves

And so it was on the 17th of December 2011 when I exactly understood the meaning of friendship. When I understood the importance of telling my friends how much I love them. When I understood the pain of losing a friend forever.

It was 9.11 am. My phone vibrated and I received a message from one of my best friends, Ramanan: “Ramnath has passed away.” Then Pirakkesh, another best friend, called and told me that Ramnath is no more with us. Knowing that a friend of mine has committed suicide  – one close to me since secondary school – was just too much. Tears rolled down my cheeks.

His family know's him since his birth, there are friends who knew him since kindergarten. Even-though I only knew him for like 4 years, I knew him so well. Each and every detail of him. No one could have known him like I did. I meet him when we were 14.  We teenagers tend to be different at school and home. We show our real character only to our friends. So some might claim they have been with him for so long but no one could have known him like I did. The saddest part of all was he never showed or indicated that he was in deep depression, or anything for me to digest with as a reason for his suicide.   

Upon, hearing the news I rushed back to Sungai Petani. I can't even believe how the hell could I reach SP in less than 30 minutes. I can't concentrate of anything while driving. I was driving alone and memories kept playing on my mind. I stopped at a petrol-station to fill petrol and Pirakkesh called; both of us were silent on both end for minutes and I could hear him weeping on the other end. I was at Ramnath's house at about 10am. I can't explain the feelings when I saw his parents crying. His body arrived at about 3.30pm.

Ramnath, you were there, lying helplessly and not breathing. Your skin was cold, your cheeks, so stiff, and your lips, blue. 

All of us were speechless. Crying. But there was simply nothing we could do to bring you to life again.

I cried, my best friends cried. One of our very own had left us without saying goodbye. And it was too painful. It was too much.

I had hoped for you to awaken so that I could tease you again. So that I could hear you laugh again. So that I could tell you how much I love you because I did not do so when you were still alive. And, yes, I regret not doing so, my friend.

His last words to me was "take care da dei, and poi tungeda" (He told me this and the end of his prank call fail at 2.30am) 

p/s: I usually won't answer call after 1.00am and from unknown number's but on that day I did. I was at the gym and my hp was so far away. It was a miracle I answered the call.

I miss you, Ramnath.

Forget about your lists and do what you can because that’s all you can do.
Phone up the people you miss and tell them you love them.
Hug those close to you as hard as you can.
Because you are always only a drunk driver’s stupidity,
a nervous shopkeeper’s mistake,
a doctor’s best attempts and an old age away from forever.

(It’s something I wrote in honour of you.)

7 Dangerous Acts After A Meal

1. Don’t smoke.
Experiments from experts proves that smoking a cigarette after meal is comparable to smoking 10 cigarettes (chances of cancer is higher)


2. Don’t eat fruits immediately.
Immediately eating fruits after meals will cause stomach to be bloated with air. Thre fore take fruits 1 -2 hours after meal or 1 hour before meal.


3. Don’t drink tea.
Because tea leaves contain a high content of acid. This substance will cause the protein content in the food we consume to be hundred thus difficult to digest.


4. Don’t loosen your belt.
 Loosening the belt after meal will easily cause the intestine to be twisted and blocked.


5. Don’t bathe.
 Bathing after meal will cause the increase of blood flow to the hands, legs and body thus the amount of blood around the stomach will therefore decrease, this will weaken the digestive system in our stomach.


6. Don’t walk about.
People always say that after a meal walk a hundred steps and you will live till 99. In actual fact this is not true. Walking will cause the digestive system to be unable to absorb the nutrition from the food we intake.

7. Don’t sleep immediately.
 The food we intake will not be to digest properly. Thus will lead to gastric and infection in our intestine.

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Divorcing your parents?

One of my friend recently asked me some legal opinion. His question was about us divorcing our parents. I bet you would have thought of divorcing our parents too. We teenagers generally don’t really get along with our parents. Well back to the topic.

The original question was : Explain law matter’s involved on us divorcing our parents. The fact that we can divorce wife but not parents. Why is that so?

  Answer:

First of all, you can divorce your wife as there exist a contractual dealing called marriage. The definition of marriage is; an agreement between a man and woman to live together as husband and wife. Thus recognizing a marriage for purposes of giving the other party (wife/husband) the rights of a spouse, including inheritance or employee benefits. So a divorce is a legal phase of you getting out of the contact.

P/s: Contract mean’s an agreement in which the parties exchange promises for each to do something in the future

In parent-child relationship a legal contract does not exist for you to get out of it. This is simply because you can’t choose your parents and vice versa. If children were given a chance to choose their parents sure they will not choose poor parents.  The law recognizes them as your parents but no contracts exist but still the law requires parents to take care of their children. If they are abused or deprived from basic needs then the law steps in to take action against the parents. This is a protection under the Human Rights Act 1998.

Furthermore, you can’t divorce your parents because if you were to divorce your parents who’s going to take care of your expenses? In which, if you are an adult you can choose to stay away from your parents. Mentally you divorce them.